Do you live in Gauteng?
Do you need some time out?
Bookings are now open for the live workshop I’ll be holding on Saturday morning, 13 August.
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I had so very many questions in the recent survey from readers wanting to know how I manage to do it all.
I’m not sure if I should be flattered that you think I do it all because I really don’t.
Yes, I probably do a lot because I’ve always had quite a bit of energy but there’s much more I don’t do.
Let me explain:
1. I’m very clear on my life purpose
I have a life mission typed out (not pretty or cute, just typed out) and I know my definition of success in life.
I also know my values. A quick secret – one of those values is not to have the laundry perfectly done (far from it), but it is to take consistent action.
Are you clear on your life purpose?
2. I’m best friends with “good enough”
For me, it’s better to have something done than have it perfect.
If you’re cringing at that sentence, let me tell you that I used to be you. Until I got coached on the fact that trying to get the last 20% of any project perfect usually takes more time than it took to do the previous 80%.
E.g. if I think of something that’s completely out of my comfort zone, making a picture collage in Picasa, it literally takes a few minutes to select some pics and group them in a collage. The playing with it to get the best configuration with the best background and font, etc, etc takes about 3 – 5 times longer than just the collage.
Of course, there is a time and place for prettying something up – maybe for your children’s birthday party *ahem* but for general sending out of occasional pics to family, it’s not necessary to be perfect. Good enough is more than fine.
Do you know when 80% is enough, or are you still stuck on perfect?
3. I have a To Not Do list
We all know there are 24 hours in a day and there is not enough time to do everything.
So it is key to know which things to leave on the To Not Do list.
In my business, I do only things that need my “essence” (for lack of a better word) and delegate the rest.
My virtual assistant, Patricia, uploads my articles to the directories and does everything on my to Not do list.
In my personal life, it’s important for me to cook from scratch (I like knowing what the “babies” eat) but I don’t peel and chop the veggies myself, the nanny and Pick & Pay help with that.
Can you see the difference?
4. I decide where I want to use my time and I don’t feel guilty about the other areas
Be intentional about your time usage. I watch (it’s on in the background) about 20 minutes of TV Mon – Fri as I change from work clothes, pack gym clothes and work bag, etc.
If you spend more time watching TV because it’s your relaxation, have at it. Don’t feel guilty.
I’ve chosen to do otherwise. Neither is right or wrong.
I do spend about 3 – 3.5 hours on the computer in the evenings, working on the business and connecting with friends through email/ Facebook.
I don’t feel guilty about that time because I know why I’m doing it.
Of course I procrastinate sometimes by surfing blogs too much but since I generally get things done, occasionally if I slip up, I don’t beat myself up about it.
How about you?
Where do you want to be spending your time and why? Are you intentional about it?
5. I take consistent action
Unfortunately getting things done is not going to just happen so you’ve got to take action all the time.
Whether it’s doing just one big forward leap or lots of little leaps, I try to take some action every day.
I’m fairly good at constantly reviewing where I am in relation to my goals – I don’t know if it’s because that’s just who I am or because I coach.
Confession – when I feel like I’m getting stuck (which happens about two – three times a year), I get specific coaching to help get me unstuck. There is nothing worse for me than that feeling of not moving forward.
I’ve been working with a new coach and one of my key goals for the next 3 months is to start and finish my book. So far so good.
Do you take enough regular action? Do you have a plan when you get stuck?
To end off, let me leave you with one of my favourite quotes:
Besides the noble art of getting things done, there is the noble art of leaving things undone. The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of nonessentials.